In Order For The Toddler Discipline, Understand Their Way Of Thought

You will surely agree, children need to be taught discipline early on. However, it turns out that teach it to children under the age of three years (the toddler) is not easy. On the one hand, parents want to teach them to follow the rules that have been created for the good of them. On the other hand, children at this age are becoming more independent and began to feel themselves as individuals. However, they also still have not been able to convey your wishes and have a good reason.

"Its the toddler is already understand that everything they do will give results. They feel have the power to do something, "said Claire Lerner, Director of child development experts and organizations engaged in the fields of parenting, Zero to Three. "They don't want to be treated like a baby again. The problem, control who they are is still very low and also rudimentary capability rasionalnya. This makes the parents so annoyed, "he added.

So that parents can teach toddler discipline, Lerner suggest to first understand the way their thoughts and feelings. Parents must remember that children are not mini-adults in the form. They may still not be able to understand what you say and commands that You may have. For that You need to declare that you know what they are feeling. Say that you know he doesn't like it when invited to bathe in when being watched, or angry if you had to stop playing and go take a NAP. Afterwards, partake with gave her understanding, why it needs to be done.

"Parents should determine the limit for the child. However, do it with a good way, so that shows that you appreciate the child. That way, children can also learn to deal with a sense of frustrated or irritated, as well as comply with regulations, "said Lerner.

In addition, said Lerner, you can also give you an option on the child, to show Your respect to it and that you understand her feelings. For example, to ask the child whether he wants to bring her favorite book or snack time will go by car. This will make kids think, they can still have no control over herself, though you also remain in control.