Legitimate to introduce children to value for money. But even though his intentions are good, often You do various errors when teaching children about money. If it is not too aware, can-can the child will not get the message that you want to convey. Here are some the mistake is often made when parents introduce children about the value of money:
1. give an example of wrong.
This error may be most aware of when doing so. You teach your child to save money and not spend money to buy goods that are not needed. So often You forbid children to buy toys that are of interest in the mall, on the pretext they didn't need it. But it turns out You own fun shopping-Shopping clothes, DVDs, magazines, or whatever you want. Should have as a parent, You exemplify it about the right money management is not only limited to mere speech."The ban without clear examples of parents to make children become confused, because it goes against. Better explained by giving an example of a right, "says Eileen Gallo, PhD, author of the Silver Spoon Kids: How Successful Parents Raise Responsible Children.
2. it is difficult to differentiate the needs and desires.
There is no harm if you bought something that was sorely needed. However, this is different from what we want. When parents are difficult to distinguish where the needs and desires, then the child is also no longer be able to distinguish the two. For example, a shoe designer who became the favorite of output You are discounted at half price. You "gave up" and buy it. Defeat You finally make you buy these shoes make you won't learn how to reject the new status symbols such as a discount.
"Children also need to learn that buy goods not needed-even though it is discounted at-also in fact also a waste. Due to the fact that money can be used to buy other essentials, "shot Paul Richard, Executive Director of the Institute of Consumer Financial Education in San Diego.
3. always save a child's fault.
When learning to manage money, children must often make a mistake. For example, when given the allowance for a week, usually they are difficult to manage it so its not up to a week is up. Oftentimes You feel sorry for the kids, because they can not buy anymore because his money runs out a snack. Compassion makes you tend to save him from error, so that the child does not learn from his mistakes. Preferably, let children feel the trouble could not because no more spending the money he has.
"If You always save the children when they do not manage money well, they're not going to learn about how to manage money and they won't feel the result of a mistake he made. This will be an important lesson about life according to their ability, "says Ann Douglas, author of Family Finace: The Essential Guide for Parents.
4. Appreciate everything with money.
Your Pernahkan everything that is done is rewarding children with money? If Yes, stop doing it. Never gave him money in return for everything that it should do, such as making PR. don't give her a reward in the form of a sum of money when he managed to get good grades in the class, or after helping you do your homework. If You do, you will fail to deliver the right motivation to work hard and learn a maximum of at school. In addition, the child receives is not satisfaction that comes with doing their best to achieve that goal, but to get a lot of money from you.
5. using money as a substitute for time and attention.
Working all day to meet all the needs of the household is commonly done by men and women. However, this causes an imbalance in domestic life. For those of you busy, often the child is not getting enough attention. To overcome this, you generally will give you some money and let them choose all of the things they want to keep them happy and no whining ask for your attention.
For you, this is the most practical way to demonstrate a sense of caring, and as a substitute for togetherness with her family. But this is wrong. be aware you that no one else in the world-even money though-and valuable to You than with Your love and attention?
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